I’ve been spending some time, both online and in life, with a few twenty somethings. Some of them have their lives together: they’re married, settled, incomed {yeah, I made that up}, and have children. And some…don’t. One is not better than the other, just different. And certainly, younger than me.
I hated my twenties. I had no idea who I was. I had no idea what I wanted to be {other than a wife & mother}. I had three jobs during that period of my life; nanny, baker’s helper, and retail “coordinator.” All were jobs that I didn’t see myself doing for long. I returned to college at the same time, first at the local community college for just a semester {ended up not finishing because I couldn’t decide on a program} and then later at a private business school from which I later graduated. I ended up working retail for most of my twenties, first as a clerk and then moving into an office administrative position. It suited me. I was good at it. And, fifteen years later, I’m still with the same company.
I had no self confidence back then. I didn’t feel comfortable in my own skin. I was shy. Nervous around guys.
These new 20-something friends? They seem nothing like I was at that age and I wonder why? Their confidence is astounding.
So when I said before that I was grateful for right-timing…I meant that I’m glad I didn’t do anything rash or stupid in my twenties {not that these new friends are doing anything rash or stupid}. I’m glad I didn’t settle. I’m glad I let life happen.
And finally, this thirty-something is finding confidence and self-love…and for that I am grateful.
sarah says
this twenty something is trying to just let life happen, in hopes that my second half of twenty somethingness, will be better than the first half 🙂